An aristocrat is not only a representative of the aristocracy as far as typology is concerned. It is a stable innate quality. There are two opposing qualities, the aristocrat and the democrat. Only one of these two qualities is present in a person’s thinking and influences his or her behavior. Such qualities arise in each of us inseparably, together with the innate type of thinking, as they are a component of it.
Official dictionaries interpret the word “aristocrat” a little differently. But nevertheless they are also right, although they do not refer this quality to the innate qualities of some people. We will try to describe this phenomenon from the angle of typology and our observations.
Who is an aristocrat?
An aristocrat, in simple terms, is a person who always thinks about himself and praises himself, talks in a mannered tone and admires his appearance in the mirror. He or she likes the status and when someone always call them by name (and middle name). It is not always a person suffering from narcissism, but it is a person who very keenly values his personality. Such people also value their reputation and think a lot about themselves and what others think of them. Sometimes he or she even overestimates their role in society and constantly wants to be significant.
For example, such people may praise themselves and expect others to praise them. They also may watch their own videos of themselves for long periods of time, evaluating how they are presented there and showing the video to others. They love awards and medals, as well as when they are called affectionate words (“you are my kitty”, “my darling” etc.). Of course, they like to hear such phrases from their loved ones. In their speech, an aristocrat quite rarely uses swear words and bad language, preferring respectful and “official” communication with others.
Every aristocrat loves a lot of things in their home that are aristocratic. These are large mirrors with shaped frames and curls, furniture in classic, royal or Provence style, carpets on the floor, chandeliers with crystal or swirling floral lamps.
What else can be said about their manners?
It may seem to every democrat that every aristocrat is like a mannered pompous actor or bohemian representative. Such people imagine a lot about themselves, waving their hands and head in an «important» way. Sometimes they show various facial expressions in the style of “father of the mafia” or “emperor”. For example, in a casual setting, every aristocrat will still want to “smarten up” and “be important” and maintain roles among people, as if in a theater production. And of course, he wants to consider himself an important character in the scene.
Aristocrats also tend to criticize others behind their backs, but their own minuses are not brought out into public conversation and are not discussed. They can give others the impression that they are very self-serving and strict people, as they value career advancement and personal gain more than relationships with other people. Often, they would rather obey the system and hierarchy than be against it. Therefore, if there is already a clear system in the state, an aristocrat will support it but not your personality.
Such people also have personal pluses – these people do have a natural magnetism. What is that? It is the ability to gather other people around them or attract them with their behavior and charm. Thus, they often, together with theatricality can also have leadership skills.
What kind of clothes do aristocrats like to wear?
It is not hard to guess that these clothes will be a little pretentious, formal, with various shaped clasps and brooches. They love pomp and businesslike, but at the same time in their clothes there is always a hint of pretentiousness in the form of the clothes themselves or its details.
Quite often they buy clothes with shiny buttons, silver or gold color, and a belt with a big buckle, which also sparkles in the sun. In other words, their clothes cannot be called simple. Women can wear corset, lace lingerie and stockings. They also like big fluffy hats or fur coats and look as if they are already presidents, prime ministers or generals. But in fact they can be ordinary nurses or lower-level office workers.
These are very complicated people, hence they have complicated tastes in everything and exaggerate a lot
But despite all this, such people are very often able to gain the respect of others for themselves. They know how to attract others and how to influence them. This is their charm and greatness.
The short description of an aristocrat as a phenomenon can be also found here.
A democrat is the opposite of an aristocrat. You can read more about it here.
Leave a Reply